Selected’s 2024 Annual Meeting at Disney Delivers the Magic of Connection

Lake Buena Vista, Fla. — October 8, 2024 — More than 400 members and guests of Selected Independent Funeral Homes gathered at Disney’s Grand Floridian Convention Center and virtually for the 2024 Annual Meeting held September 25–28. The association’s premier event connected leaders from around the world and celebrated “The Magic of Connection.”

Magic was in the air as the event launched with the Welcome Celebration. Participants reconnected with friends and made new acquaintances over dinner, drinks and an exclusive photo shoot with Disney^® characters.

Throughout the meeting, dynamic speakers highlighted relevant topics ranging from personnel management, organizational culture development, change management, funeral home merchandising and the future of funeral service.

In the session, “Maximize Your Leadership: Navigating the Five Types of People,” keynote Dr. Sherene McHenry, The People IQ Expert, helped participants adjust their leadership strategies based on the five common traits of the individuals on their teams.

In “The Trust Imperative: Bridging Divides for a Culture of Belonging and Organizational Effectiveness,” Desmond Lomax of the Arbinger Institute led participants to explore actionable insights on what is and isn’t working to build trust and belonging within their businesses.

Panel discussions featured Selected Members sharing guidance and proven practices in ownership succession to family members or key employees as well as tactics to recruit and retain top staff talent. This year’s event featured multiple “Members-Only Exchange” sessions and “Conversation Café” presentations from Selected Preferred Partners.

Lunch became the most important meal of the day for members of Selected’s four Communities as they dined together. Sponsors of Selected’s FirstGen and Funeral Home + Cemetery Management Communities shared presentations tailored to each group’s needs and members discussed pressing issues with their peers. Selected thanks Community Sponsors Full-Circle Aftercare, Kelco and PlotBox.

Selected inducted new Board Officers during the meeting. Tom Antram of French Funerals & Cremations will serve as President and John Keohane of Keohane Funeral Home will serve as Board Chair. New Board members Brad Pingel of Carmichael-Whatley Funeral Directors, Inc. and Dan Kochapski of Carmon Community Funeral Homes were inducted into their leadership roles as well.

In addition, Selected recognized five firms for 75 years of continuous membership:

• W.L. Case & Co. – Saginaw, Mich.
• Jones Funeral Home, Inc. – Winchester, Va.
• Penzien & Steele Funeral Home, Inc. – Bay City, Mich.
• Rader Funeral Home, Inc. – Kilgore, Texas
• Turner & Porter Funeral Directors – Toronto, Canada

The following firms celebrated 50 years of continuous membership:

• Hauger-Zeigler Funeral Home – Somerset, Pa.
• Kenneth H. Pollard Funeral Home, Inc. – Methuen, Mass.
• Striffler Family Funeral Homes . . . Since 1866 – McKeesport, Pa.

The 2025 Annual Meeting will be held at the Ritz-Carlton, New Orleans, September 28–October 1, 2025. For more information on Selected’s meetings, programs, becoming a member of Selected Independent Funeral Homes or to locate a member, visit selectedfuneralhomes.org or call 800-323-4219.

About Selected Independent Funeral Homes: Selected Independent Funeral Homes  delivers innovative and pertinent resources, solutions and ongoing support necessary for enduring excellence to its international network of independently owned death care providers who aspire to be the very best in their profession. Members of Selected operate according to specific standards and best practices to provide the public with reliable, high-quality service and funeral-related information.

Social Connection and Recovery

Virtual Funeral Professionals Peer Support Meeting in September

WHEELING, IL— Since 1989, September is designated as Recovery Month to raise awareness about treatment for substance use disorders, reduce stigma of those suffering, and celebrate those in recovery. That’s why this month’s virtual Funeral Professionals Peer Support meeting on Tuesday, September 17, 2024 at 8pm ET / 7pm CT / 5pm PT provides space to share stories of struggle and recovery and learn more about this all too common experience. 

Surveys show that over 65 million US adults consider themselves in recovery from substance use and/or mental health issues. Christopher Matthews, CLC, APR, CFSP, will facilitate the September Funeral Professionals Peer Support meeting to discuss the effect of substance abuse on funeral professionals today with a focus on growth, resilience and skills to support those struggling with these common, but often unspoken, concerns. 

With more than 130,000 deathcare professionals working in the United States today (US Bureau of Labor Statistics, 2024) – many of them exposed to trauma daily – the need for support and interdependence in recovery is great. Matthews hopes to provide a fresh, personal perspective and tools to help spot and support funeral professionals in need to the road to recovery.

Building social supports and a caring community is essential for recovery. Connect with your fellow funeral professional peers on Tuesday, September 17, 2024 at 8pm ET / 7pm CT / 5pm PT via Zoom link at cremationassociation.org/peersupport. No registration is required, simply follow the link to join.

About Funeral Professionals Peer Support

Funeral Professionals Peer Support Group is committed to providing support, healing, education and knowledge to funeral professionals. They promote wholeness and wellness by uniting funeral sector professionals through a Canada-wide network of regional organizations offering support, information and resources within their community. 

About CANA

Founded in 1913, the Cremation Association of North America (CANA) is an international organization of over 3,500 members, composed of funeral homes, cemeteries, crematories, industry suppliers, and consultants. CANA members believe that cremation is preparation for memorialization.

Just watched The Burial, a new movie streaming on Amazon Prime about the multi billion-dollar “death industry” that is both disturbing and “boisterously entertaining,” thanks to two great Oscar-winning actors, Tommy Lee Jones and Jamie Foxx.

It’s about a handshake contract deal gone bad between Jeremiah O’Keefe (Jones), a Mississippi funeral-home proprietor with eight locations, and Ray Loewen, who headed a multinational funeral-home empire based in Burnaby, a suburb of Vancouver, Canada.

O’Keefe is in financial trouble when he decides to sell off his funeral homes to Loewen.The handshake deal takes place on Loewen’s yacht (filming took place circling Vancouver’s scenic inner harbour off English Bay).

Months go by and the deal doesn’t go through. O’Keefe believed the Loewen Group was stalling until O’Keefe went bankrupt so they could buy up O’Keefe’s funeral homes and his profitable funeral insurance business at bargain basement prices.

O’Keefe hires a young Black lawyer to sue Loewen for breach of contract. The young lawyer, Hal (played by Mamoudou Athie) convinces O’Keefe he needs to hire a super successful rich Black lawyer named Willie E. Gary (played by Jamie Foxx) to win the case.

At the time, Gary had never lost a case and had won 90 multi million-dollar lawsuits. The son of a sharecropper, Gary had a private jet named Wings of Justice and wore $5,000 suits. He was one of the richest lawyers in the U.S. Foxx plays him as Johnnie Cochran. Gary was a personal injury lawyer who had never taken on a contract law case. One of Gary’s partners described O’Keefe’s case as “a nap waiting to happen.”

At one point, Loewen had offered O’Keefe $100 million to settle the lawsuit. O’Keefe, believing his lawyer’s advice, decided to proceed to trial.

During the litigation research, O’Keefe learns that the Loewen Group has made an exclusive deal with local Black Baptist churches to sell funeral insurance to parishioners, which Loewen estimated would bring in millions of dollars but would violate the original Loewen contract with O’Keefe.

The Burial also focuses on the bond created between the morose O’Keefe and the flamboyant Gary, with the film’s finale being a courtroom drama that ends with the testimony of Loewen himself.

Gary’s final line of questioning was about Loewen’ about Loewen’s yacht – the one where O’Keefe had reached a deal with Loewen in Vancouver’s harbour. The final question led to Loewen’s undoing on the witness stand, according to the film.

At the conclusion of the civil trial, a mostly black jury awarded O’Keefe $500 million for breach of contract, including $400 million in punitive damages; the amount was later reduced to $175 million.

The massive judgment led to the fall of the Loewen Group, which filed for bankruptcy protection in 1999. By 2002, it was restructured as the Alderwoods Group. Four years later, Alderwoods sold to Service Corporation International (SCI), the $4-billion-a-year American funeral giant based in Houston, Texas. SCI operates local funeral homes under its brand Dignity Memorial.

Ray Loewen had moved to Vancouver in 1969 from Manitoba, where his family ran a small funeral home. In 1975, Loewen successfully ran for the Social Credit party in the B.C. provincial election, but he never made it into cabinet and left politics after three years. He represented Burnaby-Edmonds until 1979.

After his short political stint, Loewen founded the Loewen Group in 1985 and started buying up funeral homes. By 1986, it operated 45 funeral homes across Canada. At it peak in the 1990s – at the time of O’Keefe’s lawsuit – the company had 15,000 employees and operated more than 1,100 funeral homes and 500 cemeteries in Canada, the U.S. and the United Kingdom. It was the second-largest funeral home operator in North America.

After losing the Mississippi trial, Loewen took his company on more expansion, but it didn’t pay off and he was forced out of his own company, according to an article by John Mackie of The Vancouver Sun.

“Loewen vanished from the public eye after he resigned from the company in 1998,” Mackie wrote. “The last time he was in the news was in 2008, when he put his palatial 14,611-square-foot mansion in Burnaby up for sale for $25 million. It wound up selling for $9.948 million in 2012.

“Loewen’s family went into the funeral business in the 1930s in his native Steinbach, Manitoba,” noted Mackie, who is originally from Winnipeg. “Ray Loewen could be a tough businessman. According to a 1996 New York Times story, he liked to tell investors that his first management decision was to fire his brothers from their parents’ small Mennonite funeral home in Manitoba.”

Mackie described The Burial as “a David and Goliath story, with Loewen as Goliath.”

The movie was based on a 1999 New Yorker article by Jonathan Harr and was directed by Maggie Betts from a script she co-wrote with Pulitzer Prize winner Doug Wright.

David Erlich of IndieWire called the movie a “rousing crowdpleaser, which absolutely slayed the 2,000-person audience at its TIFF premiere” in his review.

Foxx and Tommy Lee Jones deliver bravura performances, says this New York Times review. which called it a “next wave” film.

The film spent one week in movie theaters before airing on the Prime Video streaming platform on October 13, 2023.