Tomorrow is the last day of the federal government’s fiscal year.  That is not necessarily a big deal except that the new federal budget year begins on Wednesday and as I write this on Sunday no agreement to fund the federal government of the United States is in place moving forward.  If there is no agreement on how to fund the government, then the government will shut down with only “essential services” continuing to operate.

While threatened many times over the past several years, we have not had a government shutdown in the United States for 7 years.

The good news in all of this is that “business generally grinds on”.  Private businesses continue to operate and in the funeral home business where the federal government intersects with funeral homes — at least in the National Veteran Cemetery operations — those operations are considered “essential”.

Here is a Veterans Administration “contingency planning” document that was released in anticipation of a federal government shutdown.  From the VA cemetery side of things here’s what I believe funeral directors would need to know:

• Burials will continue at VA national cemeteries.
• Applications for headstones, markers, and burial benefits will continue to be processed.

And, here’s a couple of things that will not be moving forward:

• The VA will not permanently place headstones or maintain the grounds at national cemeteries.
• The VA will not process applications for pre-need burials.

Thoughts on a potential government shutdown —  On Friday of last week the Yahoo Finance Morning Brief had a short overview on their thoughts about the looming government shutdown.  I found it a pretty fair observation of what the United States is facing and why we may actually see a government shutdown for the first time in seven years.  The following is an exerpt from that article:

By the time you read this. . . . or within the next 48 hours or so, we will probably have an answer on which way the federal government will move.

Related — “What’s opened or closed in a federal shutdown”.  USA Today

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December 23, 2024

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